Saturday, June 30, 2018

i’m back!

it’s been some time since my last post. now i am back with more experience to share. here is an update on my family nucleus.

mummy >> me
jw>> eldest son aka “da ge”
jy >> second son aka “er ge”
xh >> daughter aka “meimei”

basic infomation updated in 2018:-

i am a full time working mum + part time masters degree student + “maria” at home. occassionally, my sisters and in-laws will help to look after the kiddos when i am having my night classes or other matters. my focus on all my children is instill right moral values and good manners.

jw, age 7, P1 student at a regular neighbourhood primary school. he is exceptionally good at academic learning, but poor in emotional control. my focus on him is guide him how to better manage and express his emotions.

jy, age 5, K1 student at full day childcare centre. he has very good EQ and motor skills. my focus on him is to help him build confidence and foundation in his academic subjects to prepare him for P1 in 2020.

xh, age 3, N1 student at full day childcare centre same like jiye. she is the most “spoilt” child because her two elder brothers dote her so much and always let her have her way. my focus on her is to learn how to respect her brothers and learn the good qualities from them respectively.

always remember that:-
“every child is different”
“no child is perfect”
“every child is precious to their parents”
“there is no naughty child. there is only child who needs our attention”
as the child grows and they will reach different age stages, their needs may change. therefore we need to observe them regularly and review your parenting styles to see if they still match with your child’s learning and needs.



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